As a life-long fat guy who is not looking to change anytime soon, I wanted to pose a question to the other fat guys in this forum - is it "right" to consider a woman's size when you are dating?
Personally, I think all people both judge and are judged based on how they look, and right or wrong fat is considered unattractive in our current society by most people - it is just how we were brought up - and every TV show, magazine ad, and playground experience has ingrained this idea firmly into our heads.
Now, I can't really get into a diatribe about how wrong I think it is to be judged and excluded by women for being a fat guy when I am personally guilty of preferring thin women over fat women.
What do you think? If we are going to go against the grain, and resist the tide telling us to loose weight, should be we seek to find similarly minded fat women? Or, do we still try to catch the "perfect 10" using whatever skills and talents we have?
Considering a woman's size...
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As a Head Fat Guy myself I
As a Head Fat Guy myself I can say it's not wrong if you don't target fat women. Is it hypocritical? Yes, but that is up to the individual to live with.
I weigh many decisions when evaluating a women. Now personally I can like a woman who is "puffy". But my idea of puffy might be huge to someone else or normal to another.
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